The word for today is…
anodyne (adjective, noun):
adjective
1 : serving to alleviate pain
2 : not likely to offend or arouse tensions
noun
1 : something that soothes, calms, or comforts
2 : a drug that allays pain
Source : Merriam -Webster
Etymology : Anodyne came to English via Latin from Greek anodynos (meaning “free from pain, causing no pain, harmless, allaying pain”), and it has been used as both an adjective and a noun (“something that soothes, calms, or comforts”) since the 16th century. It has sometimes been used of things that dull or lull the senses and render painful experiences less so. British statesman Edmund Burke used it this way, for example, in 1790 when he referred to flattery as an “anodyne draft of oblivion” that renders one (in this particular case, the deposed King Louis XVI) forgetful of the flatterer’s true feelings. Nowadays, in addition to describing things that dull pain, anodyne can also refer to that which doesn’t cause discomfort in the first place
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