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Why are lesbian women giving up on dating apps?

It’s all fun and games until the men in dresses show up. The Good Oil. Photoshop by Lushington Brady.

I follow a group on Facebook that is for feminist women – “TERFs”, to use the ugly leftist slur – finally arcing up against transgenderism. While they’ve mostly got their heads screwed on, they get very miffed if anyone points out that women were and are the biggest enablers of transgenderism.

Especially white, middle-class, university-educated, ‘progressive’ women. The kind of women who, for instance, work for Australia’s taxpayer-funded leftist media collective national broadcaster – the ABC.

Women who write stuff like this: a story about women, mostly lesbian women, who are ditching dating apps and finding alternatives such as Sydney’s Lesbian Run Club or pottery and yoga classes.

It’s just one of a suite of emerging groups people are turning to in order to combat dating fatigue, and as a more positive alternative to online dating.

People are, of course, still using dating apps – in droves. Dating apps are a multi-billion-dollar industry, with Tinder and Bumble the most downloaded.

But after a Covid boom in users, growth has stagnated, and a new pattern has emerged among users.

And it’s right here that the ABC journo dodges the big, swinging, donkey-dick in the room.

“People will go on to the apps and they will match, they’ll swipe, they’ll DM, and then they will become jaded with the platforms and potentially go off the app for a period of time. They will delete their profile. And then in a couple of months’ time … they’ll return to the dating app,” author and dating app researcher Lisa Portolan tells ABC RN’s Life Matters.

She says that feeling of being jaded is usually a response to abusive and toxic behaviour that people are more likely to encounter online, “and, in particular, on dating apps”.

“Abusive and toxic behaviour” such as…?

Tanya Koens, a clinical counsellor and sexologist, says […] “Women can have quite a lot of unpleasant behaviour directed at them and actually not feel safe and at times I think … men that are asking for dates don’t understand that women have these fears and can take it personally,” she says.

Now, why, you may be asking yourself, would lesbians have an issue with men pestering them on dating apps?

It’s the trannies, isn’t it?

I’ve had someone saying they would rather kill me than Hitler,” says 24-year-old Jennie*.

“They said they would strangle me with a belt if they were in a room with me and Hitler. That was so bizarrely violent, just because I won’t have sex with trans women.”

Lesbian women are more and more reporting that they are being abusively coerced by “transwomen” creepy male fetishists in dresses to give in to ‘girl dick’. In many cases, the pressure amounts to out-and-out rape.

Another reported a trans woman physically forcing her to have sex after they went on a date.

“[They] threatened to out me as a terf and risk my job if I refused to sleep with [them],” she wrote. “I was too young to argue and had been brainwashed by queer theory so [they were] a ‘woman’ even if every fibre of my being was screaming throughout so I agreed to go home with [them]. [They] used physical force when I changed my mind upon seeing [their] penis and raped me.”

The scale of this vile problem is vastly under-reported, because the women are simply too scared to speak out. Even the single and informal survey carried out resulted in a torrent of abuse and death threats directed at its publisher.

As for the Lesbian Run Club, enjoy it while you can, girls. Because it’ll almost certainly be crashed by the men in dresses – with the full force of the law behind them.

Hatred against trans people and a “radical precedent” in anti-discrimination law would flow from a lesbian group being allowed to invite only biological females to its events, Victoria’s peak union body has warned.

An application by the recently formed Lesbian Action Group to lawfully exclude trans women from a “Lesbians Born Female” event has caused a heated rift, with equality and inclusion advocates squaring off against women’s rights groups.

Lesbian women in Tasmania have also been dragged to the courts by outraged men in dresses, simply for trying to hold women-only events. Another case in progress, Tickle v Giggle, has a male fetishist calling himself “Roxanne Tickle” trying to extort hundreds of thousands of dollars out of the CEO of a women-only app.

Well, you can’t say you weren’t warned, girls.


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