The word for today is…
coax (verb):
1: to influence or gently urge by caressing or flattering : wheedle
2: to draw, gain, or persuade by means of gentle urging or flattery
3: to manipulate with great perseverance and usually with considerable effort toward a desired state or activity
4 obsolete : fondle, pet
Source : Merriam -Webster
Etymology : In days of yore, if you wanted to call someone a fool or an idiot, the word cokes was it, what you wanted, the real thing: to make a cokes of someone was to make a fool of them. This now-obsolete noun is believed to be the source of the verb coax. However, the earliest known sense of the verb, appearing in the late 16th century, was not “to make a fool of” (this meaning came later) but rather something sweeter: “to pet or caress; to treat lovingly.” As such an act of coaxing (or “cokesing”) was sometimes done for personal gain or favor, the word soon came to be used to refer to influencing or persuading people by kind acts or words. By the 19th century, the spelling cokes had fallen out of use, along with the meanings “to make a fool of” and “to treat lovingly.”
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